I do believe that each one of us has a soul mate and that there's always a right time to meet that person. It might take a little while, but if you wait there is always going to be a happy ending. Add an effort in finding this person too. I do not think we will just spend our whole life just wondering who could this person be. Add a little effort to socialize, observe and list the qualities of the person you want to be with. It's not necessarily that this person must be thousand miles away from you, but maybe this person is just in your neighborhood. I can still remember the first time I responded to Michael's email and set a time to talk for the first time. The moment I heard his voice I knew he is the one I am going to marry. We sometimes laughed at it now looking back and asked ourselves how did it happen so quickly. I would always say it was like a magic and due to our distance; he still went to my place and ask my parents to marry me. The whole situation was just beyond explanation and I believe he was heaven sent to me. Our courtship was very short and I can't really complain right now, but instead very thankful I finally met the guy I dreamed for so long. We all get hurt and experience pain as we go along this journey, but there are also other options that we can try to find true love. If you pursue and want to meet the love of your life, then do research about online dating and you can actually search for free. True.com has awesome features you can enjoy while finding that person who is compatible to you. Don't forget you can sign up for free!